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Basic rules for beginners!

In this blog, we will look at the basic rules of BDSM for beginners.


  • It is not advisable to start playing while intoxicated. This can make it difficult to make informed decisions and increase the risk of injury and other unforeseen situations.

  • It is important to ensure safety while playing. This requires learning safety procedures and using only quality equipment and accessories.

  • Always agree on boundaries and limitations in advance to avoid unwanted situations.

  • Maintain clarity and openness in communication to ensure clear understanding and the establishment of agreements.

  • Use "safe words" - these are words or phrases that signal the need to stop playing, for example, in case of pain, discomfort or discomfort.

  • Never leave your partner unattended or unsupervised during play.

  • Always remember that any BDSM interaction must be voluntary and agreed upon by all involved.

  • Safety is very important. All forms of physical contact and play should be safe and controlled. Beginners should make sure they know how to use any tools or accessories properly and how to avoid injury.

  • Trust is also very important. When practicing BDSM it is especially important to establish a trusting relationship between partners.

These are some of the most important rules, but don't forget that each person is different! You have to start gradually and with preparation beforehand.
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